This is a list of things that work for me sexually not a list of things I approve or disapprove of. I defend anyone’s right to be who they want and do whatever they want . Highest on my list is older men, not usually turned on by youngsters unless they’re moderately chubby and cute and cuddly. Prefer average or smaller cocks whatever the age. Not to say I don’t like a large penis occasionally ?. If it’s an older guy with a silver/grey moustache so much the better, if it’s an older guy with a ‘ tache and bald or receding, better still. Oh and did I mention silver/grey body hair esp. chest &… Read more

Hi.Took a break from xh for a few months. Re-assessed my sexual priorities. I was also on a gay dating site but I was overwhelmed with possible meets and the tail was wagging the dog. I used to be self-employed which gave me endless opportunities for liaisons. I had four meaningful gay relationships ( one turned v. toxic) and hundreds of brief encounters. When I retired those opportunities diminished dramatically. When I reached 70 ( I am now 73 )I realised that I was getting tired of playing to other people’s tunes although I stayed on the dating site. I came to realise that the time and effo… Read more